Most women my age are
scared of one thing: becoming their mothers. This has never registered
with me. Perhaps it's because of the fact I never went through the
process of "becoming" Karen Rush. I was simply born just like her. I
have the Svendsen genes (and the bell bottom jeans) to prove it. Believe
me... I have never worried about turning into my mother.
Remember the time in middle school I wore go-go boots to a dance? I do.
When people exclaim over how much I look like, talk like, act like my
mom, I receive this as one of the greatest of all compliments.
And now, now I find
myself in the process of "becoming" like someone else too... Leona, to
be exact. To tell you the truth, I'm excited about it. Leona was my
paternal grandmother, "Gran" to Amy, Kelly, Hunter, and me. Leona was
ladylike in a way that only women born around 1918 could achieve.
Remember Jesus' commandment to love God and love your neighbor? She
loved God. She loved her neighbors. She loved her family. She went to
church. She wrote in cursive. She read. She traveled. She made lemonade
when children came over. She thought a full serving of coke was
approximately 4 ounces. She saved everything. I mean... everything.
She ate fresh foods, and most of the vegetables on her table came
straight from the backyard garden. She was kind to everyone. Everyone.
And so it is with
happiness that I look at my own life and see glimpses of Leona. I love
God. I love my neighbors. I love my family. I go to church. I
(sometimes) write in cursive (although not with Gran's exquisite
penmanship... I'm working on that). I read. I travel. I make lemonade
when children come over. Coke? Who drinks Cokes these days? I save...
well... I don't save much actually. Leona was a child of the Great
Depression. So she saved. I am a child of The Treasure House. So I purge.
I reduce, I reuse, I recycle. I eat fresh foods (*ahem* or try to) and
since our last move we're in the process of building a new backyard
garden (though I can only dream of the day that I have a garden as
awesome as Pop's was). I try to be kind to everyone... but come on, let's not forget I do have that Svendsen gene.
So, what's in a (blog's)
name? Plenty. My hope is that this blog will entertain you, let you get
to know me and my fam a little better (or just keep up with our
shenanigans if you already know us well), and allow me to keep a record
of the hilariousness that is Carolena as I work on Becoming Leona (see what I did there... you're not sure if I meant "work on Becoming Leona" like in life becoming more like my grandmother or "work on Becoming Leona" as in posting to this blog. Gotcha!).
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